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How getting clear on the partner I wanted helped m

How getting clear on the partner I wanted helped me attract THE ONE
(hint hint... it didn't involve dating multiple people at the same time)

It was April 2017. I took out my journal and started scribbling what is it that I truly wanted in a partner.

Of course, I started with the usual: "I want him to be successful, have a good sense of humour, be smart, funny,..."

But then a pen took me much deeper...

I started defining his values, what was important to him, how he treated me, how he behaved with others,...

And the most important... I started writing about how I wanted to FEEL in that relationship.

With every new feeling I've written I was able to visualize and tap into that feeling. It started to feel real. Almost like I was transported into that relationship.

From that day on - I started tapping into the same feeling daily and with every day I felt closer and closer to creating that moment in my reality.

October 2017. came and I went back to @tinder

Even though I was on the app for years (with no success other than attracting emotionally unavailable men) this time it felt different.

I wasn't available to players, f*ck boys, guys who were intimidated by me or those who didn't want a committed relationship I was looking for.

I was only available for the real deal.

💍 And after 10 days that's exactly what I got.

A man who matched what I truly wanted and with whom I felt the same way like all those days of visualizing.

And 4 and half years later (3 of which we're married) he still does. (plus, no matter how many details you visualize the Universe delivers that and soooooo much more, the things you're not even wise enough now to ask for)

Getting clear on what your soul wants and needs is the first step to getting it. it's like an invisible force that's pulling you towards that thing.

Now I'm teaching this process in depth inside my 👉 Match Your Soulmate program. This is just one of the modules. When you join, you'll get access to another 5 modules that will break down all the other steps I used and now my clients are using to call in their soulmate partners.

Are you ready to attract in THE ONE?
💌 DM me 'LOVE' and I'll send you the link to join.

If you're an ambitious, overachiever who wants a l

If you're an ambitious, overachiever who wants a lot from a partner and a relationship, try this instead of a long list of what you want in a partner👇

I'm sure you have "a list" and if not a written version, at least an idea in your head with: my partner should be tall, successful, financially stable,...

And let me guess - the guys you're meeting are ticking the boxes BUT they don't want to commit OR those who want to commit are not even close to what you want.

No shame here, we all know how it feels.

BUT I'm here to tell you 👉 the list won't get you a soulmate partner. #shocker

Don't get me wrong, you can have everything you want (and more) BUT what you REALLY want is not on that list, it's so much deeper.

All these items you've listed are there because you think when you get them you'll feel a certain way (safe, taken care of, loved, supported,...).

So you don't really want him to be successful - you want him to understand and support your dreams.

You don't want him to be tall - you want to feel safe and protected.

What you really want is someone to love you the way you want to be loved, to know your heart and to understand your soul.

So instead of asking yourself "how do you want your partner to LOOK like", ask yourself "how do you want to FEEL with your partner?"

👉 If you're ready to learn how to call in a healthy, long-term relationship without compromising your true desires, DM me "LOVE" and let's chat how coaching can help you call in a soulmate partner.
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Hey, single lady, it's your time to attract the so

Hey, single lady, it's your time to attract the soulmate partner ready to commit to a long-term love💍

Ok, let's be honest, we can change that photo on the left and it wouldn't be too far from what you're going through right now...

All those hours spent on dating apps, guys who'll ghost you after 2 weeks and dates with emotionally unavailable men should be used better!

You're smart, gorgeous, funny, caring...
You have so much to offer.
You're made for a committed long-term love with a partner who'll support you, love you, adore...

Yet you're settling for the crumbs of some mediocre guy who has the audacity to make you feel like you're not good enough OR that you're too much.

Hm, hm... can we put an end to it, please?

I'm tired of seeing amazing women like you spending time, money and energy on something they think they should want instead of connecting with your true desires and claiming the love you're meant for.

I get it, once upon a time, I've fallen into the same trap, BUT I learned that ATTRACTING the love you want means:
💜 saying NO to chasing guys, settling for less, spending hours on the apps and pleasing others instead of yourself AND
💜 saying YES to YOU, your desires, your authentic expression, support on all levels, pleasure, joy,...

If you're ready to say YES to yourself and learn the proven coaching method that will be your shortcut to a healthy, loving relationship, sign up for a free 3-day Soulmate Attraction Training.

Claim your free ticket 👉 Link In Bio @thesandrahay

P.S. If you're ready for high-level support, DM me 'LOVE' and let's chat how 1:1 coaching can take you from guys who are intimidated by you, f*ck boys and emotionally unavailable partners to attract the love of your life who's ready to commit to you.

This is how to turn dating apps from a villain to

This is how to turn dating apps from a villain to a bestie👭

Hours and hours on the apps just to match with a guy who ghosts you after 2 weeks.
Love bombing that turns into inconsistency and leaving messages on 'read'.
A medium ugly mediocre man to whom you gave a chance becomes someone that you chase and feel that you have to change to be good enough for him.

Hmmm... we all have a veeeery similar experience with the apps.
And of course, we'll start hating even the thought of using them again.

But after years of experiences like this,
I was able to turn the story.
I attracted the love of my life after a week of joining @tinder (and we all know the reputation this app has...)

Don't get me wrong I hated Tinder, Bumble, Match,...
But I also learned that hating them didn't serve me.

If we live in a day and age where the vast majority of meeting someone happens online, let's shift the script and make dating apps your friend.

1️⃣Be super clear on who are you looking for - I'm not talking only hights and bank status, I'm talking values, what's important to them, how they view life and relationships)

2️⃣Rise your standards - ok, this is something you don't hear often, BUT the moment you start being UNAVAILABLE for emotionally unavailable men, guys who are intimidated by you and players, that's when you'll create the space for your soulmate

3️⃣Change your mindset - it's easy to fall into a trap of believing that "dating apps don't work" and "all men are the same" after the fiasco on the apps BUT when you start EXPECTING to meet your dream partner online, that's when you'll meet them

None of my clients was able to
find their husband online,
have fun with dating,
attract the love of their life through the apps by hating online dating.

Husbands,
boyfriends
& committed relationships came when they started enjoying dating and made a decision that dating is going to work for them.

Are you ready to become a magnet for a high-quality partner ready to commit to you?

💜Free 3-day Soulmate Attraction Training is for you.

This is for single women who are looking to attract a healthy, long-term love with a soulmate partner.

👉DM me "LOVE" for a complementary ticket

There was a time when I thought I would end up alo

There was a time when I thought I would end up alone.

I remember those nights when I would cry myself to sleep because I thought that's what the rest of my life is going to look like.

With every “let's go with a flow and see how it goes”, the thoughts in my head would convince me that no man wanted to commit to me.

Every match that started s*xy chat even before the first date, made me think that the relationship I'm looking for is just the dream and that I should settle for less.

I didn't think I was worthy of the relationship I wanted.

I allowed myself one-night stands in hope that that would change his mind and make him commit to me.

I used to neglect my needs and desires to make guys feel more comfortable and... to make them stay.

BUT at some point... I realised that the only thing that was holding me back from finding my dream partner... was that unloving relationship with myself.

Meeting people wasn't the problem for me, I was constantly putting myself out there.

BUT meeting the right person... felt like a mission impossible.

Why's that? Glad you've asked!

Every relationship starts with a relationship with yourself.

And when I learned this:
💜 In 6 months I attracted the love of my life,
💜 in 14 months we were engaged,
💜 in 18 months we were married…
💜 and during that time I didn’t compromise any part of me, my needs or my desires.

That's why I've created Rise Up To Self-Love @thesandrahay

I know first hand what happens when you focus only on meeting more people and forget that the quality of the people you attract is a direct reflection of the relationship you have with yourself.

That's why every week we'll come together to tap into one fundamental area of the relationship with yourself so that you can build unshakable self-love and confidence to attract your dream partner.

This is the SECRET CODE you were looking for to find The One.

If you're ready to activate your inner magnetism so that you can attract your dream partner with confidence, Rise Up To Self Love is for you.

👉 DM me SELF LOVE for the link to join

Would you like to manifest the Cartier bracelet?💎

My client dreamt for the longest time of having the Cartier bracelet. She even got a gold bracelet that looked like Cartier just so that one day she can change it for the genuine Cartier.

And now that day has come!

😍 She got the Cartier bracelet as a gift. (when you’re manifesting you never know when or where it’s going to come from)

But then… she started feeling like that’s a waste and that money should go towards “something bigger” (hint: self-sabotage slowly creeping in)

Her highest self knows what she wants.
She is the person who wears the $10K bracelet.
She is the woman who can have anything she wants.

But her current self feels like “who am I to wear the Cartier?”

It’s the same with dating and relationships.

💖 Your highest self knows that you’re the person who is loved, respected and adored by her partner.
💖 You’re the person who is treated like a queen in a relationship.
💖 You’re the woman who is deserving of a partner who supports her, adores her, hears and sees her.

But does your current self feel the same OR
are you available for guys who are flaky?
For guys who disappear and then come back and disappear and come back…?
For guys who feel like you’re too much?

My client had me to uncover her self-sabotage,
cut mindset blocks in their roots so that she can
keep on rising into the version of herself she wants to step into and manifest jewelry, money and a man she wants.

Are you ready for the same?

If you want to learn how to manifest the man equivalent to Cartier bracelet 💎 and stop your past programing from running your dating life 💌 DM me and let’s chat about how coaching can bring magic into your love life.

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